Bad internet dating experience...?

Hmmm this summer passed for me thinking and chattin with one girl...and at the end I found out it was just one of the many net scams. Indeed, I am not sure...the whole story with her finished kinda with "open end"...


The problem was that everytime when she was promising a date, in the latest moment she called or wrote something like "my mother...father...brother are in hospital, I can't come to see you, sorry". And such things made me think here pictures and everything else are just a lie.





The real problem that whole internet ****...makes you think sometimes you've found the perfect person...and you think alot about that, and what is most important: you hope...there's a big hope that you want everything to be real and to see her...and you left just so, with memories for one big hope.





And thats what I am doing now, while listenin that...:


http://youtube.com/watch?v=z7lrcrh4uik.....





thanxxx

Bad internet dating experience...?
I understand you very good, as I tried to find my love in Internet too. I was alone many years , brough up my son, and I didn`t want a step-father for him, but now he is 19, he is a student, and I started thinking that maybe I can still find a good man to love him. And of course with the help of Internet. Let me tell you that among many men I chosed the only one, he looked very nice to me, we had much in comman, could discuss many questions, we also wanted to meet(he is from Sweden and I`m from Russia). and we spend like this about 3 months, but then he became so jelous, he wanted me to be on line everytime, he knew , when I came back home from my work and if I was late, it was a big skandal, if I went to the theatre, he was looking for the site of this theatre and checked me. I was at a loss, and one day, after I told him that I din`t like it, he just dissapiaded , without saying a word(maybe he wanted me to run after him, but I didn`t) Then after that I chatting with a man from the USA , he also looked very nice, but then he began to tell me such things as using sex toys, that in America everybody use them. I also was at a loss, because in Russia we don`r talk about such things with a person who is nobody to you( if you see my questins here you`ll see my question about the sex toys ) .As in our country to discuss such things with a man, who is not your lover is not good , I left this man. Let me tell you, I think both of us are very romantic, and we begin to invent a person. make him as our dream. And then life showes us that we are mistaken. And let me tell you, that many people have many contacts , when they are looking for somebody to love. but you and me go different way,if we have a person, we are not talking with others.All our hopes were broken, but I still want to trust that somewhere there is a the best man in the world, and I sure will meet him. And I`m sure you`ll find your love too, such men as you are like treasure and can make happy any woman.Thire is a Russian proverb-if you are afraid of wolves , you should not go to the forest. But in the forest there are not only angry wolves, there are many beautiful flowers, berries, butterflies, birds there. I prefer to go to the forest. Wish you love and happiness.
Reply:yeah shouldnt trust people on the internet.


i once got an email from a girl for Russia that wanted to meet me cause she said she wanted to move to a different country and didnt know anyone and wanted to work and find a nice man lol. scam already hahah.
Reply:I found my wife on Yahoo Personals. Waded through many scams and the usual ups and downs of regular and interent dating before meeting her.





It's best to find real, local people and chat with them a while and then set up a real date. You are both there to actually meet people, right?





Use internet dating to meet several people and figure out who you like in person. Don't get tied to one person before you even meet them.
Reply:you and i have a very simaler proublum i dont now much about what happend with you but i now with me i met this guy in chat and i cant explain what happened we were just friends he listend and he is just wonderful maby your girl is just scared to meet you for fear you was not telling the truth or maby your rt and she isnt you realy have no way of nowing but i can understand your feeling i am also the same waiting for that one big hope
Reply:Hi,





"No expectations, no disappointments". It is hard to stick on sometimes. However, you have done your best I guess, you are not the one who "cheated", so do not worry about that. It does not mean that you may not meet someone who is true again online. People that are not honest can be met online or at a coffee shop, it does not matter, they are just not honest.


It is better that you did not meet her, I do not believe you would want to date someone who finds silly excuses to avoid dates, or uses ridiculous lies.
Reply:This is why I don't do the whole, "internet dating" scene. The odds of me finding someone special is slim to none. Anyone can say anything at any given time to me, that'll sweep me off my feet, and you'll never know if they mean it. The computer is emotionless. I suggest leaving it well enough alone, and moving on to find someone else...in person.





Good Luck! xo
Reply:come on man dont be upset.when u r on net make sure dont believe any1. now plz relax i know its difficult.
Reply:Well in my opinion you should never meet anyone on the internet. There is great risk in every way.

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