How true you are on internet dating? guys only pls?

i met a guy on internet whom my friend gave his ID to me. he's 35, %26amp; he said he is single, no kids, no wife %26amp; serious on looking for the real girl. Because of his sweet words, %26amp; i may say sincerity in his words--i told him that i love him despite not seeing each other yet. %26amp; i told him also that i don't want to play games even in internet because me myself is sincere enough to look for that right guy because i'm now 28 %26amp; haven't had a bf since my first broke up when i was 23.





But on my curiosity, i made another ID %26amp; i chatted with him saying if we could be friends. He said "yes" %26amp; soon the conversation went on. I had a chance to asked him if he has children %26amp; he said "i have 2 boys ages 13 %26amp; 11". I love him but i'm confuse. please tell me guys if how true you are on internet. thank you.

How true you are on internet dating? guys only pls?
With stuff like that I'm very honest, then agian I really have nothing to hide. Internet dating is a way to introduce yourself to more people. its not a means to expiriance a relationship tho. Meet the guy, see if he is for real. You'll find out real quick if he has kids and if his other stories check out. Just be careful there are some serious crazys out there...
Reply:I tell the truth on the internet, but I'm not desperate for a connection, so I have no motivation to lie. I must say, though, that thinking you're in love with someone you've never met in person doesn't make much sense to me. How can it be that the only thing that's important about a person is what can be transmitted through a computer?
Reply:you dont love him your feeling lonely so your attaching to some jerkoff whos lying to you so you will meet him so he can have his way with you.





98% of guys use the internet to find chicks to bang


2% of them are honest about themselves(and still just want sex)





hes a jerk and hes lying to get in your pants.
Reply:Is he real, no. 35 years old, maybe, but he could easily be 40. He's probably also married too. He told you he's single with no kids or wife, but to your other ID he said he's got kids . . . and HE wants a real girl. You can guarantee HE'S not real.
Reply:This is somthing that most people go through....


He isnt real, or hes lying.


If it was true then it woud be the best thing, but if hes said two different things, then just leave it.


Its hard to leave love, but doesnt it feel like a one way emotion?
Reply:unfortunately the guy you met is a player. i have one hard and fast rule in chat rooms, im, etc., etc. i only tell the truth. it is the only way to go. that way, no surprises come about. forget this one sweetie, he is playing you.
Reply:Internet Dating Sites are know for this type of behavior. People say anything to get what they want.


It like buying a car, you need to test drive it first in order to get the full effect!
Reply:I doubt if anybody is honest and true on the internet dating. Don't believe in this.
Reply:he's obviously lieing to you ?


i'm lost.
Reply:This is a serious red flag...if he lies about his children (which is VITAL information) then who knows what else he's lying about?





Fact of the matter is, if someone wants to be accepted, they need to present themselves truthfully to the best of their ability, and if the girl they are interested in doesn't accept them, they would have saved themselves an abundance of trouble and possible heartache.





I have dated girls on the net (and married one eventually!) and I don't lie about myself. Lies find you out, and believe me, it's embarrassing when they do.
Reply:im very honest on internet dating. if they ask me if i am married, i tell them the truth, "yes, so i dont date very much anymore" if they ask if i have any kids i tell them no but i dont want any either.





so dont trust anyone up front. make them earn your trust and your love. take it slow and let it develope itself, dont push it and dont jump all in becuase some guy is a sweet talker. beware that is the very way many people become victims of some sort of bad thing. always protect yourself and keep yourself guarded, if you are voulnerable it will be obvious and that makes it easy to take you trust or anything else for that matter. good luck.