Internet Dating - When to Meet?

I have 'met' a man, through a dating site %26amp; things are going great. We have been chatting for over a month now %26amp; are in contact daily. It has never been IF we meet but WHEN %26amp; I really do want to meet him but I freeze at the thought in case things don't go well.





How will i know when is the right time?

Internet Dating - When to Meet?
Just meet him soon.


The longer you keep this going for, your expectations will be higher and his will too. Im sure if you have be speaking for that long then things will be fine.


Take the bull by the horns
Reply:Thats no probs, good luck with the date. Im sure he will be the picture you painted.


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Reply:It sounds as though you're comfortable talking with each other. Make arrangements to meet for a coffee to begin, then if things don't work out, neither of you has to endure a whole evening! Make it somewhere you feel safe, and take it from there.
Reply:I also meet a man through an Internet dating site and we are now living together. For safety reasons pick a public place to meet, such as a popular cafe in town. One thing I always say to everyone who trying it this way to meet someone, is that you seem to know straight away when you meet them, whether they are the right one for you or not. You just seem to know. Cheers and good luck.
Reply:do you trust him enough to sleep with him when you meet
Reply:If you're really into this guy, you can talk with him if he's ready to meet you as well. You guys can talk about when the right time is for you and him. Also, do you trust him enough? Like, you know you won't be stuck waiting or you'll get someone you weren't expecting at all?


Anyway, if he's into you as well, things should go just fine.





Good luck!
Reply:I think it is hard to ever know for sure if the time is right but I think if you really want to meet him then you should meet him. I think a good start is going for coffee somewhere, perhaps at a Borders book store as this is a very casual place to meet and may be less nerve racking. I also suggest meeting in the afternoon as a way to avoid making it "feel" too much like a date which may cause you more anxiety. If you hit things off in person as well as it sounds like you have while chatting then you can make plans to also go out at night.





Good luck!
Reply:you will know soon.
Reply:Do not trust others except yourself. You can meet him at first but never trust him all.
Reply:look just be careful he might have said all these things and been really nice but how do u no if its true, dont ever trust online people because they could be anything it doesnt just applie for kids but for adults too!!! and if u must meet him make sure its in a crowded place and dont go off somewhere quiet or in his car. and he can get pictures from anywhere. the internet is a dangerous place!!!
Reply:only when and if you feel right about meeting him, and always meet in a crowded place, preferably during daytime, and tell someone you are meeting blah blah. just stay safe and it will be ok.