What should I do about my boyfriend who is on internet dating site?

I still recieve mails from a dating site I used to check out a few years ago. They send me a list of new adherents every week.


This morning I found my boyfriends picture in the list! He adhered a few weeks ago and in his profile it says 2 people have taken an interest in him and the last time he checked the site was 2 days ago!


He is a very loving and caring boyfriend and we get on very well. He says, he hopes our relationship will last and really really, almost deperately, wants a child.


If I tell him I know about him on the dating site, he will amedeately say that I am also checking it out!


I sent him a message on the site (with an alias) suggesting we meet up... Not sure if that was a good idea, he will probably recognise my profile even if i don't have a picture on it...


So what else should I do?

What should I do about my boyfriend who is on internet dating site?
How strange that your asking us,you know what you should do,dont you?





He is still looking so your not the one and only,just dump him,he's a cheater.
Reply:just tell him. if he kicks of about then there is something fishy about him.
Reply:dump him.
Reply:get rid is what id do. he should have no need to go on dating sites.
Reply:Wait for a reply. If everything goes according to plan he will respond. He has no respect for you because he has no respect for himself. Admit it he is addicted to dating sites and needs to get help. And you are addicted to proving his provocative attitude with other females. Get a new bf and drop this loser.
Reply:Wait and see what reply you get first. If he answers you then dump him. He could be looking on the website out of curiosity, but then again If you tell him that you know he is on there he may think you have trust issues. I would bring up a general conversation about dating websites in a few days and see his reaction. You could say that a friend of yours is thinking of joining this site!
Reply:it's a good idea to meet up with him...!!!You will see what he is going to do when he's seeing you there.Go for it...i think that's a way how to find out what he really wants.If he isn gonan be angry when he sees you there,it means he was excepting someone else...and it's not good
Reply:Tell him you've found his pic on the site. If you both start hiding things now, your relationship isn't going to work. Be careful about having a child with a man who is still looking for other girlfriends.
Reply:I would get a friend to sign up to the site and arrange to meet him, and see his shock when they turn up. Also he may reply saying hes not looking right now as he is in a relationship so that will answer you question, but if he actively pursues a date then I would dump him.
Reply:get rid of him computers seem to take men away from the nice people. I have seen 4 friends loose interest in wives and g/f due to spontanious meeting thro the internet
Reply:Confront him, and see how you feel about his expilnation, doesnt sound good tho. sorry
Reply:my dear,


tell your boy friend the truth and always say sorry if you do wrong. if he really love's you he will never leave you alone. build a trust in him. i hope it works for you


Star786
Reply:you should dump him, sorry


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