Got on well with man, internet dating site, sent photo, I'm attractive. He ended it after photo sent. Why?

I was getting on well with this man. We talked over dating site and all was well until he asked for a photo and I sent it. I am attractive but the photo was me dressed casually. He said before I sent the photo, that he was impressed with my replies. Everything was good until I sent the photo. After I sent the photo, he lamely said that he was busy with work and didn't have time to date at the moment. Yeah right! I am down about it. He is nicely presented in his photo and good looking, about 50, a widow with children. I do look better than the photo I sent, but the photo was still attractive. It is to do with the photo, so what do I do? Is he shallow or am I not pretty enough?

Got on well with man, internet dating site, sent photo, I'm attractive. He ended it after photo sent. Why?
maybe he did not think you were attractive
Reply:He says he was a widow, but he wasn't. His wife got wise to his internet dating act and he needed to let you down easy. Don't sweat it....he was nothing but trouble. This EXACT thing happened to my sister.
Reply:You may be attractive, but perhaps you just weren't attractive to him. Everyone is entitled to and has their own taste. Let it go, more on, there are plenty of fish in the sea!
Reply:he is DEFINETLY shallow





but next time you send a pic, make it flattering.


Make yourself look as pretty as you are in real life!


Just nothing raunchy
Reply:You probably just don't match his type. For example, you could be the hottest blond babe out there, and he wouldn't date you because he is looking for a phillipeno goddess with extra big juggs. I mean like really, really big jugs. Anyway hope that helps.
Reply:did u ask wat he looks 4 in a person he dates?
Reply:Who knows. . . maybe his wife found it. People have different preferences and weird ways. Maybe it was something about you that turned him off (nose, eyes, hair, etc.) or something in the picture. He probably did you a favor. Find someone who is more down to earth and mature. Good Luck!
Reply:Physical attraction is a real part of a relationship.





There may be absolutely nothing wrong with you - except this particular man isn't that interested - people have the right to their own tastes.





Perhaps exchange photos at the beginning next time - before you get too involved so you also can decide if the other person it ' to your taste'.
Reply:just leave it alone if he is that shallow


you don't want someone in your life like that anyway





maybe it was better that you found out so soon that he was like that
Reply:He probably realized that he actually knew you so he cut things off right there.
Reply:he sounds pretty shallow to me.
Reply:Any man that ends a relationship over what somebody looks like is not worth a penny! Dont you put yourself down because of this shallow cheap excuse for a man! How dare he have that kind of power over you! Your better off without this toad. Get back out on the dating scene and rememeber you are beautiful!
Reply:Don't worry he's just a bum I'm sure theres someone out there for U and I'm sure yor beutiful
Reply:Don't take it out on yourself, he just didn't like the picture. Let him be the one that loses out here. Would you really want to be with someone that puts that much weight into physical appearance?
Reply:He's shallow?





Maybe he sent you a picture of some else %26amp; realised when he saw your photo that he would never be good enough





The only way to know what he's thinking is to ask him
Reply:im afraid its because of the photo, hes very shallow , its probably not you, but him, and he put your appereances in front of your personality, thats not right
Reply:maye he thought u wheren't that attractive


and when he saw ur picture was all intimidated
Reply:he's shallow end of story.
Reply:While you may be attractive, he may not have thought so. No need to be mad. Everyone is not for everybody. Move on.
Reply:Shallow is probably the best description.





Keep in mind that how people look is a big part of attraction. It's human nature, but there's a reason why we are physically attracted to some people and not others.





Each of us has different tastes. You weren't what he envisioned, and if he's decided it's enough of a reason to not keep in contact with you, then you're better off for it. Why waste your time?





Don't fret over it, and move on to the next guy. When your using a dating site, make sure not to place all of your eggs in one basket. Get yourself out there and try to meet as many men online as you can.





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Reply:Don't think for a second that you aren't pretty enough! He's either shallow or you simply aren't his type in one way or another.. It could be something so stupid as your hair color.





If he cares more about looks than what's in your heart, he obviously isn't a good guy to want to be with anyway.





OR, another idea is that maybe he feels HE isn't good enough.





Keep looking, you'll find a better guy.
Reply:sounds like he's shallow.casual is attractive to some guys but not all.hey if your in to younger guys email me.
Reply:well it was possible that he was telling the truth but then again some men are a**holes lol. Maybe he just has a different type of women he likes. Don't b down about it I'm sure ur a very attractive woman.