Has anybody reading this found true love via internet dating or do you somebody who has?

cos i have tried it for over a year now and whilst i have made some fab friends i have found the large majority of guys are just desparate for a s**g!! and are rude and offensive on msn and yahoo


In face to face meetings in clubs etc too thats all i find


is there any hope or should i leave net dating and not try too hard


your thoughts and experiences please peeps





thankyou xxx

Has anybody reading this found true love via internet dating or do you somebody who has?
Like anywhere, there are good and bad experiences. I find that some people think that the internet means they don't have to try as hard, so they skip to the chase and ask for sex. Other people hide behind the internet and want to drag meeting into some month long chat fest. It depends on who you meet.





I have found some cool people, but you have to remember that seriously 95% of people anywhere are just a waste of time. It's a numbers game. But either way, best not to LOOK for true love online or in a club or anywhere. Just look to meet people and have fun and true love will find you.





Good luck.
Reply:A friend of mine found true love on the Internet. Her now husband lived down the street from her. They got married in the Bahamas three years ago. Another friend of mine found true love on the Internet. They lived in the same town. They got married last year in Las Vegas. I have never had much luck with online dating. I dated one person. It didn't work out longterm. It works for some and not for others.


Best wishes,
Reply:Not through internet dating but through myspace. About a year ago I was addicted to myspace but wasn't looking for a guy since I had a boyfriend. A guy ended up messaging me and we hit it off well as friends.We talked for a month but I stopped talking to him because my bf and I were going through tough times. After about a week my bf and I broke up so I called the called I was talking to on myspace to feel better. He ended up asking me to go out with him the following week. We met up and fell in love. There are def. some weirdos out there but you just have to talk to them and put them in weird conversational situations to see how they respond. good luck!
Reply:i think all you can hope for is friendship. my ex and i met on the internet and he was mr prince charming until we tied the knot. hyde jeckly thing for him and me it was torture.





im single now and plan to stay that way.
Reply:I only dated one guy I met on the internet. We corresponded three months before we met, and were together for about 2 years. I've known him for about 6 years now, and he's still my best friend.
Reply:My brother found the love of his life online. He was dating a girl he met online before he got married to his wife and she was a HUGE loser. But he's very happily married now. I think it's kind of a hit and miss type situation.
Reply:yes...it does work. just be in control and have patience.
Reply:My sister (who is a doctor) married a man she met through an online dating service. She went on alot of dates, but he was the only guy she had a second date with. She was able to determine right away that there was no point in seeing them after the first date. Maybe she got lucky, but I think he's even luckier.


It's possible but set your standards high!
Reply:Yeah, my cousin met someone and married, and at least two couples at my church met over e-harmony. I guess who you are and where you're looking might make a difference. From my observations, males who are pretty decent guys have had the best luck on those sites. Kinda hard for a girl to look around with out seeming like a slut, I guess. *shrug* For what it's worth. Hope you are able to find someone!
Reply:My experience...#1 guy-cheap and boring, #2 guy-nice, but not in control of finances, (makes a bad mate in the long run, plus he kissed like a cow), #3 guy-just wanted one thing, (don't ask), #4 guy-excellent candidate on paper, had everything in the world going for him, but depressed and no joy at all in his life, #5 guy-another excellent candidate on paper (see, with experience, the discernment gets a whole lot better!) but emotionally unavailable and flat, some would, and have, called him boring. #6---there will be no #6, I gave up on that venue.

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