Do guys fall in love whe internet dating?

I read an article which said that most male internet daters start to develop feelings for a girl after exchanging e-mails and phone conversations. Why do you think a guy would develop feelings for a girl based on a picture and in what she has to say over e-mail %26amp; phone conversations?


Do you believe this?


What is your opinion on this?





BTW: I’m a girls and read this in Cosmo.

Do guys fall in love whe internet dating?
I cannot answer for all guys, only myself and the guys I know.





Typically, we approach people we are attracted to. This is why we go to bars... and on the internet ask for pictures and etc...





Talking on the phone and e-mails are not really for most guys. The phone is for getting things done like calling the fire department and the cops.





E-mail is for an introduction to get a date to go out and do things. Most pictures of the women are phoney ones any ways... or 50 lbs. lighter than the person sending the picture(s). Typically, we guys are told, "Oh, that was me back in 7th grade, high school or whenever.





Then, we see if the girls are who they say they are and if we can relate to them... if we are still attracked to the real person.





If we cannot connect, and are not compatable we leave. If we do not "connect" by the third date, it is over. If the girl never pays it is also over. Now a days, we believe that equal rights means equal responsibilities and commitment. Too many women/girls make a game of it and want to lead us on to as many freebies as they can get...





Hope this helps.





Good luck.
Reply:AM not sure what you mean by falling in love over internet dating issues? Sexy, programming or the content therein, or member of the site you fall in likes with. Either way, its best to be yourself and open as you would otherwise be. Two tricks played over internet is that it all ends in 'who is fooling who' and both look extrmely ugly in the end..best to be ugly than being stupid and foolish huh? Just be yourself and don't forget the PC is supposed to be personal..sometimes it isn't..in thay way I mean..who's looking over who's shoulder?
Reply:It does happen. Its the emotional connection that starts and takes over. It does happen and it has happened to me..
Reply:i don´t thnink it´s possible, sometimes you feel something that is not love when someone says sweet things to you, everyone likes love words and feels special when listening at them, so i think that´s the thing
Reply:Yes, it is a fact because, alot of the times males and females alike are shallow at first glance of an unattractive male or female, but on the net you don't exactly get to see the person all the time until you have grown to know them.
Reply:I love this question! Thanks for posting it. I'm not a guy so I don't know, but a good follow up question to this one would be "so you've fallen in love online"....can you "fall out of love" once you actually meet that person?
Reply:Well I am a guy and I did fall in love on the internet. The girl that I fell in love with has torn my heart apart. She says that it was because of the distance but I think she was playing games with me for the past year. I developed feelings for her because she was the first to say those 3 magic words, "I love you". We also did a lot of web camming. It got to the point that I stopped doing certain things that I enjoyed such as going to topless bars with my friends or even flirting with girls that I could actually touch because I was in love. Then she dumped me. My advice to any guy out there is, DO NOT FALL IN LOVE ONLINE. You are setting yourself up for a major let down!!!
Reply:It isn' falling in love.. I think it is more like falling in horny with them. *Note* I have never done that but it is my opinion.
Reply:yes dear.. guys do fall in love wid chats phone calls and email only.. we sometime underestimate dem... dey hav soft heart n bunch of feelings waiting to b explored.. its not that they only look for beauty of outer side.. dey also go for inner soul.. via mails n all they come to know bout how the person is.. and eventually fall in love wid d girl.. mostly if d girl is caring understanding and good listener