HELP ...Boyfriend on Internet dating site, what do I do?

I met my boyfriend on the internet nearly 9 months ago. We agreed that we did not need the internet site and we both took down our profiles 7 months ago. I still get emails from that site telling me about special offers, so I went to go change my email options (which I thought I did). Just wanting to look at which guys were there and thinking how happy I was that I didn't have to do this any more, one the 1st page, who's face did I see? My BOYFRIEND'S. His profile is back on there. I need advice, what should I do? How should I handle this (We are both older than 30, so I need an mature way to deal with this).

HELP ...Boyfriend on Internet dating site, what do I do?
just talk to him.. communication is key in any good relationship. there is no other way about this.. trust me :) good luck with whatever you choose :)
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Reply:He is a player, it is time to move on, girlfriend.
Reply:internet dating never works...he could be a rapist %26amp; ******* bin laden.. u neva know, so dont take it seriously
Reply:Why would he need a dating site profile if he's with you, tell him to get rid of that or your gone..
Reply:Is it possible that you thought you changed your email preferences but they wernt changed that he thought he removed his profile but didnt? I guess this is the glass half full way of looking at it but honestly Im thinking he is thinking about moving on - you need to confront him about it - Im not saying leap down his throat yelling but just ask him about it - if he cant give you a reasonable excuse or if he turns it back onto you asking why you were there in the first place then just dump him and move on.
Reply:Break up with him cause he is keeping you around until he can trade up.
Reply:Well he may have forgotten to remove his profile but you never know...so either confront him or maybe even better re-register with the site under a false profile and send a couple of 'winks' or mail him and see how he reacts
Reply:You just said you went back to change you email option when you saw his profile. It is possible he has not realise his profile is still there. So I will advise you to inform him that his profile is still there and see his reaction.
Reply:Talk to him, tell him the truth and ask him why he is still on the site.
Reply:Move on.





Find someone who respects you................
Reply:Confront him and ask him why is his profile back on the website. I went through something similar with my b/f. I confronted him, he explained why it was on there, then he took it down. You need an explanation and the only way to get it is by confrontation. After he gives it, decide if he was justified and then decide what you want to do next....forgive/forget.
Reply:Long in as him and delete the account, just kidding. Is this really the type of guy you would want to be with? You don't have a lot of time invested in this relationship (even though you may feel like you do). He may be doing it for an ego boost but the only way to find that out would be to ask him. If you don't want to know the answer, stop answering the phone when he calls.
Reply:answer his add. maybe he likes "makin love at midnight"
Reply:Confront him. Maybe he just thought he completely removed his profile. If he gives you a lame sounding reply or you can tell that he's lying, then move on. You deserve better!