Meeting a guy from an internet dating site.?

I actually need to be assured if this is a good meeting plan or not.





I met this guy in an internet site. I am a bit serious so after a few e-mails I told him I would like to meet him in person rather than IM to a strange web page profile and investing my feelings and interests in something it might not work when we meet in person. He agreed without hesitation.





As we were both students in the same university I thought it will be better to arrange it in the university's cafeteria, around midday (when it is full of people) and 2 hours before my next class so that I don't spend TOO much time with him. I also thought to tell to my friend Adam (he also attends the same class) to either pick me up or call me if I am late in class (something that will be unusual anyway for me). Does that seem good or will I appear paranoid the guy I am meeting? Also if you have any tips on what information I should not answer and stuff please do not hesitate to mention. Any advice is good to me.

Meeting a guy from an internet dating site.?
I think meeting in the afternoon in the school cafeteria is a great idea. I would not put so much stress on worrying that he is a nut or killer. Many people date and even marry someone they meet on line. I would have your friend call you before your class starts so you have an exit but don't have him show up.





I think you will be fine, good luck. Remember he might be as nervous as you are.
Reply:I think your plan is great. Its safe and full of people just incase something went wrong.





Best of luck!!
Reply:Don't be too paranoid! There are thousands of people that are meeting online. The chances of things going wrong are slim. You're doing the right thing in meeting in a public place. Relax and enjoy :)





I know lots of people that meet folks on match.com and what not. They've never had a problem. Just use your common sense.
Reply:thats a good plan,


you are in a crowded place and some one knows whats going on if you dont come to class


perfect plan!
Reply:I have gone on 3 dates with men from an Internet site...and I'm still alive, had some good experiences, and believe I was smart about it. You do sound a bit paranoid but that's better than not taking some precaution. I currently am in serious love with someone I was matched with on e.harmony so...go for it...there's a reason you signed up for this deal...now go for it! I don't think you should fale some emergency with your friend calling...that's really freaking obvious. Just handle it on your own and tell him, when it's time, you have to go.
Reply:well meeting someone online isn't a good thing in the first place.. they could be someone posing as a student.. but my friend met her boyfriend of 3 yrs now online n they are happy.. so really be careful either way because you really don't know them as well.. have a friend always know about what's going on when meeting someone online.
Reply:that is a pretty good plan.. just get to know him a little more before u tell him anything really personal. but in case u really hate him right when u first meet him... make sure your friend calls you about 20 minutes in. If the date is going well just be like okay blahblahblah bye. but if it is going bad then say omg ill be there right away (it is an emergency) and you have to go!
Reply:All I can say is that I met my long term girlfriend on the internet %26amp; it's the best thing I ever did. Take a chance and seize the day.
Reply:I think you made a very smart plan. Good Luck!!

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