Why does my boyfriend use internet dating sites?

My boyfriend lives with me and been together for 1 year. There have been times we thought we'd break up. I thought we were trying to make a better relationship now. Recently I found out he's been using dating sites. He gets email notices from them sending him matches. Sometimes new dating services send him matches. So far it seems he has not paid anything and has a brief profile on one. No pics have been uploaded yet. Why does he say he loves me but keeps looking at email matches? If he really cared he wouldn't be intrested in other women. Right?

Why does my boyfriend use internet dating sites?
Seriously Robin, are you waiting around so that he can break your heart. Men are very good at having a plan b when it comes to relationships if not anything else. They like to explore options when they are in a relationship just in case the relationship fails. Having a plan b in life is generally good but in the case of relationships, the way that men typically go about it, is cheating. This is not stress that you need. It's not fair to you either. One of my best friends is going through this situation right now but the guy wants her to be the plan b. We were all under the impression that he was broken up with his girlfriend when he really wasn't. Upon meeting him, he seems so awesome. We were all looking forward to having him be part of our group of friends. He would talk about how much he didn't want to be with his girlfriend and how unhappy he was with her but he was still seeing her. So my friend almost feel for it. Most of the girls in the group almost fell for it. I wanted to mind my business but I had to intervene and get in his a$$ for what he was trying to do. i had to let him know that his behavior will not be tolerated. Not to mention he's 31 and my friend is only 20. I really had to talk some sense into her so that she could ask the right questions of herself and the guy. I explained to all of my friend who thought that he was so nice that men who devalue their wives or girlfriends in order to ingratiate themselves to other women aren't a new breed. Men have lamented how poorly they are being treated in their relationships for the longest and women have been falling for it just as long. Yes there are men who are in relationships with terrible women but they shoudl have the maturity to get out of it, not drag another innocent woman in the middle. Also, I got to meet this girl when they came down to Chicago from Michigan for a concert. Even though she was a drag, I could tell that she is really likeable and that she is just unhappy too. But, thats an issue for another time.





Maybe I am in a bad moood right now but my advice is to not that the bullsh!t. Break up with him and let him be free to do what you and he both know he's going to do and that sleep with someone else if he isn't already doing it. Read the writting on the wall. Don't ignore it because you'll be angry with yourself for paying attention to it later. Best Wishes! ☻
Reply:He may love you but he does not fell like you are the ONE and thats big for guys. So thats why he is searching.
Reply:He's looking to get laid
Reply:Exactly right. He's testing the waters to see what else he can get while still staying secure in your relationship (since he is online rather than in person). See, it's not technically cheating unless he has replied to one of these "matches" (it's the equivalent of a girl hitting on him and him turning her down) but the fact that he has a profile signifies what might be in the future. Do something about it now before it's too big of a problem to stop.
Reply:Your right if he really cared he wouldnt do that to you...so being that he is doing what he is doing, I think you should leave him because baby girl it seems like he is waiting for the right one so he can do it to you.Trust me you dont need a little boy like him you need a Man!
Reply:Sounds like he's cheating... or just really loves to have a back-up to feel secure...





I wouldn't put up with that crap... I don't care if I lived with the guy (I wouldn't before marriage anyways), but I would kick his cheating @$$ out... because I know I deserve better than that.
Reply:oohh. you think he "loves" you, don't you? Well, take time and think again. This time, be logical. Use your brain, not your heart.
Reply:Well, may be he loves u and used internet match maker sites just for time pass....!! Some times i use it but i never had any intention to find some one through net!! Its not a big issue i think, may be just curiosity!!!





But dont be over sure abt it! Keep eyes on him. If u can ask him y he went to that website, tell him if he doesnt love u in realy doesnt he tell u!

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