Internet dating: a question mostly for men... (but women please answer too!)?

After how many dates do you expect the person you've met to take their profile off the dating website? Also, what would you think if you'd slept with the person, were chatting every second day for over an hour, getting a text every day to let you know they were thinking about you, yet their profile is still up and active in the last 24 hours? Should I say something or let it lie for now, and if so, for how long?

Internet dating: a question mostly for men... (but women please answer too!)?
I think it's an ego thing. Seeing how many people like him.





edit: wait, who's the girl? You or your date? I think you're the girl, but other people who have answered imply that you are the man?
Reply:it depends how long you have been going out with them, but if all the things you said are true then I would have thought they would have taken their profile off by now, as if you are together then they shouldn't be advertising themselves still as being single and looking for someone! maybe you should just ask them if their details are still on the site and see what they say
Reply:I understand what you are saying; To be honest, I think that you should talk to him about that.


Even if just to know where you stand.


It's only fair isn't it?


At the end of the day, you want to make sure that you're not being led on and that he's not just having a good time with you among others.


Ask him directly whether he considers the two of you to be in a relationship. If so, you could ask him about thinking of deleting your profiles?


That should tell you whether he's a womaniser using the web as a place to prey.


Good luck.
Reply:Let it lie for now.Me i would find her password and find out what she is up to.SIMPLY BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY WOULD DO TO US
Reply:On a dating website you can see when they were last on. I'm a member of girlsdateforfree Kitty for anyone looking lol scotland glasgow age 22. check me out. sorry!


But as i was saying i had been seeing someone who i met there for 4weeks but it never worked out and i was glad i kept it on there as i have made so many new friend through it aswell.


Speak to ur new partner and see what she says she may be waiting for you to remove urs first.
Reply:Just ask, maybe he has not bothered to remove it and has not even thought about it.
Reply:I would ask the person if you want to make things exclusive. Plus, if your checking to see if this person has been on the site...then haven't you been on the site as well? Maybe the person your dating is seeing if your still active, just as you are. I would just talk about where you want things to go.
Reply:You could just simply ask the person why their profile is still up. They may have just forgotten about it. However, they will ask you what you were doing on the website that you saw that their profile was still up.
Reply:SHE WILL HUMP ALL THE BOYS OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN !!YOU ARE A BUNNY BOILER MATE..
Reply:i think u should wait a bit longer, if she sends u texts to say shes thinking about u, then im sure she means it