Need some "boy" advise :P I've recently made myself a profile on an internet dating website...?

I've recently made myself a profile on an internet dating website...and started talking to this guy - lets call him Mr.X. We've been talking online and on the phone for about 3 days now and we're supposed to meet tonight. He told me he goes to - let call it University X (lol) - the thing is that my best friend works at the registrar office of this University and he is not enrolled there...now, I'm not really sure what to - i've actually been honest about everything I've told this guy - Now I'm wondering what else he could be lying about...I don't know how I would bring this up without sounding like a total stalker...any advice!!??


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Need some "boy" advise :P I've recently made myself a profile on an internet dating website...?
Don't meet him alone if you're going. That's just asking to be chopped up in tiny little pieces if he's lying about basically who he is already. Bring a male friend with you.
Reply:Don't meet him! You did a good thing by checking if he is registered at your university and he's not...so he was lying about it and probably lying about a lot of other things too!!
Reply:First of all, be VERY careful. If you know for a fact that he is not enrolled in the school, then you know for a fact that he lied to you. Since you know that he lied to you I think it is safe to presume that he is either hiding something or not really interested in a relationship. As an older brother and a reserve police officer, my first inclination would be to not meet him at all or atleast not untill you find out a little more about him. I think you should tell him that you know he isn't enrolled at the school, see what his response is. The thing you have to remember is you have to keep yourself safe, even if you sound like a stalker, you're safety is more important.


Hopefully you haven't told him where you live and you were planning on meeting somewhere. If you do decide to meet him, meet somewhere very public, get there early so he can't see where you come from, and when you leave, make sure you aren't followed. I hope it turns out well for you, but be careful. You know he lied to you, what else don't you know about him? There are guys out there that won't lie to you but often its hard to know on a website.
Reply:i would honestly confront him about it.. or at least ask him what courses he's taking and if he makes up a fake schedule i would then confront him about it. If you met this guy online then theres absolutely nothing stalkerish about checking out anything you can before meeting him. Its called playing it safe. Better safe than sorry. Chances are he's lying about it for some lame reason but you never know.... be safe!
Reply:I'd cancel the plans. It seems real shady, and if he lies thats bad!
Reply:WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT BEING A STALKER!!! IT'S THE INTERNET, HELLO?! DON'T MEET HIM!!!
Reply:FIRST RULE of meeting anyone from an online environment is SAFETY FIRST. do not meet this guy in an obscure location.. meet him at a public well lit place and stay at the public well lit place. also.. have a trusted friend there as a "spotter" someone to watch your back if things go wrong.





sorry if this sounds paranoid, but better safe than sorry
Reply:Don't!....... meet him! You need to tell him that you know he doesn't go to the school..... and if he tells you why he lied then say, let's keep this relationship strictly over the phone or IM... at least for a little while
Reply:This is why I never would do online dating. Maybe he does work at the university like he says. Or he could be lying too. If your so worried then go over to the campus and ask the registrar office if he works there. You can work at a university and not be a student. You just started talking to this guy. Don't share too much information with him right away. Don't tell him all your personal stuff just yet either. It takes time to get to know someone. If you rush into things you could cause some problems. Meet the guy and see what's truly like. He could be a good guy or a bad guy. Take things slowly and don't rush!!!