Internet dating/meeting.. I met a man back in Septemeber online...?

Since september we have chatted online on cam, text and talk each day. Over time our friendship has grown very strong. He told me he loves me and I feel the same. He lives in Hawaii, is a few years older than me and single as I. He asked me to come out there and be with him. I've talked this over with my friends and family, they have all his info as well as his parents. I want him to book my flight. I feel like if i don't do this, I maybe passing up the life i always wanted as there's really nothing keeping me where i am....what would you do? thank you for all your response :) tgc and god bless

Internet dating/meeting.. I met a man back in Septemeber online...?
My Dad remarried someone he met online... and I know many people who have met their significant other via the Net. Go for it! But make sure you are safe. You NEVER know what could happen... so plan for the worst but expect the best! Bring a friend with you if you can.
Reply:As long as you do it safely I say good luck and God bless. Even if it doesn't work with him you got a trip to Hawaii out of it, right?
Reply:I would say you havent known each other long but I would say meeting is something you should do if you feel for sure you are interested. Moving there.... not quite yet but meeting in a public place would be safe enough. Problem is the distance. You cant drive to Hawaii. If he really likes you and there is no issue with money, have him come to your area for a meeting and to get to know one another. that would be your safest bet. If he doesnt want to do that, something may be fishy. remember you dont really know someone until you KNOW them.





Good luck and be safe !
Reply:if he is sincere, have him buy the ticket





you cannot change your life until you've met in person, there are so many factors missing until then
Reply:nothing ventured, nothing gained, I say go for it.
Reply:I am assuming you are at least in your 20s.


There are predators out there on the Net, going after young girls in their teens.





It is more safer to book your accommodations at a hotel, have him pick you up at the front of the hotel, don't invite him to the room, this way you have some safety to fall back on...remember, your family and friend are not in Hawaii, only you are if you go.
Reply:I would visit back and forth awhile before moving there with him. You haven't met in person so you still don't know if there is actual chemistry. Things are a lot different when there is no screen seperating you from him.
Reply:Just because you and your family have all of his info means nothing how do you know it is the correct info? Try peoplefinders.com and do a background check on him it may cost you some money, but if you are thinking of hooking up with this guy its worth it .
Reply:personally i would not do this! september that is rele not very long.





this is the thing with long distance relationships. when they go wrong and you have moved away from home, you have none of your own personal friends and family to pick up the pieces.