For internet dating, how can you ensure the person you are seeing is not married?

Is there a ID or something that you can request the person to show you? read the questions, so many people fall in love with married people. Is there a way we can do a spot check on their marriage status?

For internet dating, how can you ensure the person you are seeing is not married?
if you have a real name andcity they live you can get a background check
Reply:There's no way of really knowing unless you get all there real information and do your own investigation. You could ask them but half the time they wont be honest and who wants to be put in a love triangle
Reply:wether or not you meet someone on the internet is not the point, they can lie to you anywhere you meet them
Reply:You can do the background check. Or wait until you really start dating them for real, outside of the Internet.
Reply:just randomly in the middle of an intellectual conversation insert a "so how's your wife/husband doing".... if they start to answer the question, they're married, if they are like "what?!?!" you're good...
Reply:you wonder how technology has dramatically change all of our lifestyle. more people are finding love via internet. is that a good thing or bad? i guess the positive point is that you will see the person's personality first over their looks, so that's a plus. but i believe there's more negative than positive in online dating. like is the person you're talking to online...are they for real? are they telling you the truth? and majority of the time, it is a long distance relationship (i don't think long distance relationships work, unless you like seeing the person once a week or something).





so...i really think the good ole fashion way is the best way...you know meeting someone through friends or what not and having a conversation is way better than finding a relationship online.
Reply:If you know the guys complete name, city and state he lives in you can check with the court house...I believe marriage license are a matter of public record.
Reply:You do not know if the person on the Internet is married or not. There are people out here in the world that will tell you anything on a computer, but never believe everything that someone types on the computer. It may cost you a few dollars, but you can check marriage license on public records.


Make him/her give you the state and city they were born in.
Reply:maybe do a background check, thats about all i can think of.





this is one of the reasons i refuse to fall for anyone
Reply:NO!!!!!
Reply:No there isnt really you cant really tell if the person is married or have a gf unless they are totally honest with and tell you themselves but the only way to know for sure is if they are going to be honest with you or if you have actually seen the person with a ring on their finger other than that there is no way to know for sure at that time
Reply:No, unfortunately there is no way to be certain that someone is not married.
Reply:Invest $25 and enroll in PublicData.com you do up to 125 background checks a year. Is a great help for single women. Good Luck!
Reply:You don't and therein lies the horns of that dilemna.





You only know what they tell you don't you? I'ts all guesswork and on line dating is the most ridiculous thing your generation has ever devised. Downright dangerous and for people who can't get a date otherwise or too lazy to make the effort. But that is just my opinion.
Reply:Just ask us...we're all honest...I'm married, .............why,...is this gonna be a problem? And no, I cannot spend all my money on YOU! I have a wife and four kids to support!