Is internet dating for losers?!?

ive had disastrous relationships and hate bein on my own, not havin any1 2share stuff with :-( but im only 24. am i a loser for giving it a go?

Is internet dating for losers?!?
you shouldn't need it at just 24 - go out with your mates, have fun, - it'll be easy to meet someone new.





Internet dating is for middle aged desperados, in the last chance saloon - like me :)
Reply:thank you too! At 24 you'll meet someone new in no time at all don't worry! Report It

Reply:Well I wouldn't say loser!! But when I hear of people you met on the internet I just think saddo's!! I wouldn't do simply because you will not always meet the right person - there are weirdo's out there. Stick to the traditional methods. Get together with friends, and go out, meet someone that way!! I think it is sad that you feel you dislike being on your own. What is so bad about it - you can share things with friends and family!! You don't need a man to fulfil your happiness!!
Reply:no, just be careful if you plan on meeting them in person, don't go alone until you really know the person. good luck and keep your options open..
Reply:no Internet dating is for people who want a wide variety of people to chose from
Reply:Nah, don't worry about what others think. Internet dating can be a good thing. You get to know someone from the inside first, then the outside.... as if the outside matters
Reply:you're not a loser.... its not that much different than meeting somebody in a bar only you get to find out a little more about the person sooner, rather than later...





take your time, be very careful and you'll be fine... there's been loads of questions answered on here about it if you want to do a little reading around...
Reply:No...it makes sense to me...I haven't tryed it myself but i imagine it would be a quick way of finding Mr Right...Who needs to have to go through all that crap, finding out if that other persons right for them...I think they pair you up with someone whos more compatible, likes and dislikes the same as you...
Reply:No internet dating is not for losers, its for ppl that Are searching for love
Reply:Not for losers at all, A hell of a lot of people in happy relationships meet over the internet :-D
Reply:no you are not a loser --- internet dating is a viable alternative --- pubs and clubs are not really good places to meet -- the internet is a safe place to meet if you are careful
Reply:Internet dating isn't 4 losers!!! It could b an opportunity 4 u 2 meet someone that maybe u otherwise wouldn't have. My main piece of advice though, is 2 b very careful! A lot of the time, people r not always what they seem 2 b on here!
Reply:most definitely not... you just gotta play it cool and not go looking! just let it happen sort of thing,





people say its unsafe, but its no more unsafe that getting with some guy or gal in a club that you've never met before.





be sensible and go for it!
Reply:no, who knows you might find the the type of person you are looking for on the Internet.
Reply:why don't you go to yahoo personals or match .com and browse to know what type of ppl are on there?


do they all look ugly and losers?





i browsed both sites and no most of them didn't look like losers.


some of them look...say... below average but most of them look average looking.


online dating site is a new tool to meet new ppl today.


you don't need to hesitate to use it since there are already millions ppl using it.
Reply:100% NO!!!
Reply:No it's not for losers





I haven't used it personally but a few of my good friends have and they've never been happier.





In this day it's hard to find the time to form a lasting relationship online dating gives you a chance to contact each other before meeting up.





I can go on about safety and stuff but you'll have heard it.





Give it ago,
Reply:Yes its for ugly people, and old pervs!!!! My mate patrick is a prime example he looks for mature horny girls (he is 17) while my friend shi shi signs up to meetnigerians.net where she advertises her sexual "services"... They are both freaks, and both use the net ... what more do you need to know?
Reply:I think there is a chance of losing your life, because I've read so many of Internet meeting and they find them murdered and the one from the Internet is the killer. I wouldn't start a relationship on a Internet for anything in the world. It's to dangerous to take a chance. Find someone on your own, go out with your friends and you'll run into to someone that you can get to know and date.
Reply:I feel the same way as you, but I know quite a few people who have done the internet dating thing. I know a couple more who have actually gotten married. It works for some people, and doesn't for others. Either way, it doesn't make you a loser for trying to find someone. Just be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want in a guy before you post a profile. And just remember... a guy's picture isn't necessarily indicative of his personality. The GQ model type that makes your knees buckle could be a total ******, while the average Joe could be the best thing to ever happen to you. Be safe on line, and good luck to ya!
Reply:It's for losers and people want some easy sex.
Reply:no it is not for losers,search and you might find the person there
Reply:No you're not, and anyone that says you are is an idiot. There's nothing wrong with it at all.





Sometimes you don't need someone...a lover someone, to share stuff with. Sometimes all you really need, is a close friend.
Reply:yes, people who spend most of their lives


on their own until they are so old their looks have


long since gone are real winners.





























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Reply:No, I do not think its for losers at all. As I see it, you have an opportunity to meet people that you may not have ever come across in your day-to-day life. Plus, if you chat online a few times before you actually meet him/her, you already know (based on what they've told you anyways) if you would have any interest in the person, instead of getting fixed up, going out, spending $$ and wasting your precious time with someone whom you find you neither like nor have any common interests with. Good luck to you!
Reply:NOOO...it's for winners too. Internet dating allows you to read about a person, see their pictures and communicate with them before you ever meet them. It allows you to learn more about them before you meet them in a public place and decide if you want to know them better. It's alot safer than meeting someone in a bar for the first time. I met my BF on the internet, we're very much in love and we've been together over a year and a half now.
Reply:Nope! It serves many purposes. First it is safe to flip around from person to person on line. Second you dont have to leave home to spill your guts. Third, you may just find a winner. Fourth you can trust your instincts if you do it for a long time. You will know the differnece. Meet in person with a person you trust to watch over you. Be safe.
Reply:Its pretty much the last resort and then everyone on there is either with someone or married so get out the house and go find a man as its desperate trying to find someone on the internet.
Reply:Nah. My wife signed up for an online service with a group of friends, all of whom were sick of the guys they were dating. After each had a few dates (terrible ones) they said "F this" and gave it up. Meanwhile, I was bored at work and laughing at bad online personal ads at the free site, when I found hers; well-written, funny and worth a quick response. I wasn't looking and neither was she, but it turned out we had mutual friends (and an enemy) so we ended up dating.





We've been married for seven years, and have two kids. We're also the happiest married couple we know.





Of course, we might be losers. Hard to tell. I'm sure our kids will think so when they're teenagers.
Reply:No, but I do think it is more for people that have had a rough go of it on their own, and figure what the hell, it can't be worse than what I've gotten on my own! Kind of a nothing to lose stage of the dating game. ;)





Sorry if that sounds bleak.
Reply:i wud say no, if u lucky "the one" mite be on the internet,
Reply:No you're not a loser at all, it's crazy to say but I met my current boyfriend of 3 years on the internet and things are fine with me. I thoght I was a loser for doing that but if things worked out I must not be that big of a loser huh? Good luck

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