Okay, internet dating - IM and the phone conversations go great, then I meet them and nothing. Help?

It's always no spark. What types of questions should I be asking or what clues should I be looking for?

Okay, internet dating - IM and the phone conversations go great, then I meet them and nothing. Help?
Do less on the phone and IM, so there is stuff to talk about. You should be flirty soo much he should think you want him a lot more than you give on like on the phone of IM. Sit on his lap, kiss, hold hands. Do whatever. Cause if talking isn't working, than do something else.
Reply:Maybe you need to sit down and figure out what it is that allows you to feel a connection with someone in all areas of your life.Then figure out which area is of most importance..oftentimes if looking for someone who we experience sparks with right away is not the same person who we would seek a long term relationship with.


Also never fall for the "words" as they are too easy...figure out what sets your heart and body ablaze with desire and then the sparks will be there because you will have picked the right guy.


Also might want to be more focused on men you can see in person as sparks are impossible over a computer.
Reply:These questions are always good. But if he still has a problem answering them then I don't know what to tell you Good luck!
Reply:Maybe you havn't found the right person yet, maybe the magic you seek is only a few cliks away.