Internet dating help....??? girl doesnt want to meet me?

i been talking and chatting with this girl for about 10 months now. i really like her soooo much, theres no one else i have ever met online that is so pretty and so fun to talk to, we usually talk and chat 5-7 hours a day for the day we met online. and Im going soooo crazy crazy and nut that she does not want to see me, she tells me she cant see me because of what other guys have done to her and she has been cheated alot of times. but she has been single for more then 2 yrs i really like her so much but i dont want know what to do anymore :( please help me, i know there are other girls out there but she is special to me. help me give me sugestions

Internet dating help....??? girl doesnt want to meet me?
I would nix the relationship.





If she's not willing to move to the next step and meet in person, then I think she's hiding something.





For all you know you could be chatting with a middle age, fat married woman with 10 kids.. who knows..





Don't risk the unknown.





Just dump her and move on.





Even if she is what she says she is.. chances are she's had such problems in the past.. any relationship she has now, won't work out. People with major problems need to work threw them to be okay for dating..





Either way.. it's lose lose for you.
Reply:This girl has been lying to you about something. There is no other valid reason for her not wanting to finally meet you. Unless of course, you've done something to make her believe that you are some kind of creep, and possibly meeting you in person could be dangerous. You could offer to meet her in a public, well lit, safe place, during the day. Tell her if she's worried to bring a friend %26amp; tell others where she's going. If she's not worried about you being some creep then then perhaps she's been less than truthful about her age, or maybe the pics she's been using on myspace %26amp; sent to you are old ones. OR, possibly, she has a boyfriend %26amp; considers chatting online harmless, but feels that meeting you in person would constitute cheating. If you really care about her, let her know that you don't care what she looks like, you're interested in her because of her personality. Honestly, her excuse sounds like bull$hit, so there has to be more to it. She could be underage, %26amp; if that's the case head for the hills!! That's WAY more trouble than you need.


Good luck!!
Reply:I don't agree with all of you. I believe she's been burned. She probably talks to you because like most online, she wants to kill time.. It doesn't phase me you like her. You love what you can't have. It's killing you. I guarantee if you met this girl, you would lead her on and run. Why you ask? You'll realize she has a kid, which is not what you want. Also, she has too much drama=insecurities. Do you really want to meet her? She's doing you a favor buddy..
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Reply:give her more time. if she was into you, she would eventually want to see you. i'd say dont give up as yet. you have to prove you arent one of the bastards who will end up hurting her.
Reply:have patient endurance.if she doesnt like to meet u dont force her.
Reply:Girls love a good avatar.
Reply:OPTION 1


she doesn't trust you... then may b its too early, chat a lil more, so that trust builds up... and u have to work harder so that she can overcome her prev. expierences...





OPTION 2


talk her nicely, and try to fetch some details... abt her whrabts... then someday burp in her way, and you both will automatically get lost in talks, as u said u both talk for 5 - 7 hrs...


its just 1st time hesitation coz of her prev. exp... so cleverly remove that.... meet her inadvertenly and rest will be as good as it was ... :)
Reply:Hmmmm..maybe she doesnt look the way she has described , maybe shes a he??gotta be careful cause its so easy online to take a moment before compossing or answering questions ect...you have time to rehearse...so maybe shes great but its harder in RL. You cant force her.
Reply:Respect her bounderies. She is scared and doesnt want to get hurt again. So just respect that. Another thing she has children so why would she potientally invite an axe murder over to be around her child.?
Reply:i agree with other ppl's opinions.


maybe she is not what she described herself on the net.


maybe she showed you fake pics.





unless you have a cam on cam session you never know who is sitting at the other side of the puter.


she can be a 56 year old lonely woman or " he".
Reply:There doesn't seem to be anything good in this for you. You can't force her to be with you and she also sounds as if she has a lot of personal baggage. You really need to move on and just think of her as a friend.
Reply:Find a real girl?