If a guy is real interested in you, why would he still be looking at other girls on the internet dating sites?

I've been seeing this guy for about 1 1/2 months. I think we have a good connection and great chemistry- good conversations, same interests, go places, attracted to one another, and he is very affectionate with me. But I see that he is still active on the dating site we met on. Would this mean he is still keeping options open? Looking out of curiosity or boredom? Or is just with me until he finds someone better on there?

If a guy is real interested in you, why would he still be looking at other girls on the internet dating sites?
If he is still active on the dating site you two met at it's pretty obvious he is still looking.
Reply:Do you want him to fall for you.


If you are interesting he won't look for another women.


make him your's before he finds another and leaves you
Reply:I think it is keeping his options open. I myself would not do that because I think it is rude, but that's just me. I would advise you not to get to attached to this guy until you see which way your relationship is going. He does spend a lot of time with you right? I mean he does not have time when he could be seeing someone else? I am just saying be careful and best of luck, who knows why people do some of the things they do. :)
Reply:go figure. you deserve so much more.
Reply:There are many different stages of relationships. Make sure your both on the same page here. Your almost sounding like you are going steady and have expectations of him not seeing anybody else. I don't know where your at or him but you both need to know where each other is so no one gets hurt.
Reply:He is still looking. Ask him how he thinks he can improve on perfection.
Reply:If he is still i guess you would say "Active" on the dating site he is keeping his options open. Maybe he's looking for more than one partner, maybe he is just not feeling the connection you are. Talk to him about it and ask him what's in his head honestly, and how you and him are connecting. And go from there. But don't get too connecting to someone you have only been with for a month and a half.
Reply:yea hes still looking! but how do u no hes still active on the site? u would have 2 have been on the site 2!
Reply:He's makin a Contingancy plan. or a backup plan. If he slips dnt hesitate to drop his *** and find a better person.
Reply:he is still looking and keeping his options open
Reply:You two have been seeing one another for a short amount of time, and I am not sure what you are calling yourselves, how committed you are to one another. It is possible he is keeping his options open just in case the two of you don't work out...but, I think until you guys get really serious and you still see that he's active, you may have a problem. If you guys are having a great time, try not to think too heavily about what he might be doing, because you honestly don't know unless you ask...and even then...who knows!! But, seriously, if you guys are having fun...don't worry, be cautious, but not overbearing...good luck!!
Reply:He's bogus to begin with. It's an act with most low lifes.





Find someone who will treat you with respect. Pay attention to red flags. He has a flag pole, and there is a RED FLAG waving in the WIND. That means run like hell!!!
Reply:He probably doesn't feel that he is commited to you enough. I don't know if he is actively looking for a better one to replace anyone but that's how internet dating works I am sure...good and bad.
Reply:There're many things a guy can benefit from at dating sites. On the positive side, he may be looking for the best way to make his relationship with u very romantic. He may not be there necessarily to search for another girl. Whatever, since u say u have great chemistry, conversation, interest etc, this is a topic which u two must take up soon. May be u two will together become active on the dating sites, which may even make ur relationship more romantic. So keep him company everywhere including at the dating sites.
Reply:To see if he can get better than what he has. I asked myself that question too after I met some one off of match.com.
Reply:I have been married to my husband for almost two years, and he was signed up for every dateing and single sites out there. In fact he STILL goes to them. I don't think it's that he is looking elsewhere for a girlfriend. I honestly think that men don't think before they act. My husband KNOWS I hate it when he goes to those sites, yet he still goes. I think its a complusion that they cannot control. If you feel that uncomfortable about it, maybe sit down and bring it up to him. Tell him that you noticed that he is still active on them, and you were curious as to why. Ask him if he is serious about your relationship, and where he stands. Hopefully your boyfriend is more cooperative with you than my husband. And I wish you the best with this one, there really is no easy answer to this kind of problem, I think its a problem all men have.