Has anyone had a really bad experience with someone they've met on an Internet dating site?

I met someone on a dating site for married people, met up with him, saw him again and things went brilliantly. Now I've only heard from him twice in the last week and although he says he's really keen to see me he seems reluctant to arrange a third meeting. Should I give up, has anyone had similar experiences and what would you all do in my situation?

Has anyone had a really bad experience with someone they've met on an Internet dating site?
I would probably let it go for now and let him make the next move. If he likes you enough, he will find a way to see you. You have made your interest in him known and now the ball is in his court!
Reply:What do you expect on a site for cheaters (married people)? I wouldn't be the LEAST bit surprised to learn people who utilize such a service aren't of very high ethics or caliber.





I've tried singles sites on and off for years. Went out with a number of people over time, no "bad" experiences...some better than others, and sometimes we just didn't "click" in person, but nothing scary or threatening.





I wouldn't consider someone reluctant to make more plans a "bad" experience...just typical of many who believe it's okay to give folks the brush-off rather than be honest with them...however, as he's married (per what you said) and one may assume you are as well, do you really want the karma associated with dating other/married people?
Reply:Yeah, had a couple of really bad experiences.


I was quite naive.


It was a learning experience.
Reply:i have had 2 relationships over the internet, it was a site called faceparty.com. i found the girls to be very untrustworthy and i did not trust them at all. the problem is alot of blokes do use the site more than women and the temptation factor is large on a girls part. i think the best thing you can do is meet someone in person and not to find a relationship over the internet, there are alot of perverts and liars on there. there are alot of genuine people out there the only way you will find them is in a club or pub or somewhere you least expect.
Reply:let him go or talk to him about what you feel.Unfortunately,boys usually dont want to solve problems...
Reply:All of the really bad experiences you read in the headlines of the newspaper the ones who were murdered. I would simply leave it alone and move on. I would do more socializing within my own community. I personally do not trust internet dating... There are to many men in the world right in your own back yard.... Seek and ye shall find.. Good luck and God bless****
Reply:Unfortunately there was one person that I was due to meet about 2 years ago, but he became really abusive on the telephone to me and on line because I didn't respond to an question he had posed me quick enough.





The decision to meet after that was very quickly cancelled, as god alone knows what may have happened if I had chosen to meet him as I had intended. We had only been speaking for a few weeks on the phone and online, so we didn't really know each other that well.





If the guy is reluctant to meet up again, give him time, if he wants to see you again then let him do the running, men hate being chased.
Reply:Its not just internet dating that this sort thing happens you could just as easily have met in a bar and likely the result would have been the same. So its his loss just dont give up because of him. Just curious did you mean a dating site for divorced people???????????? rather than married people.
Reply:just let him go some are real creeps, i met my boyfriend in a chatroom and now i live with him and been going out for over 9 months
Reply:let it go