I just got a veritable flood of responses to a craigslist post. Do you think I am obligated to answer all of them? Isn't it unkind to just leave people hanging? I know I hate being left hanging?
Should you tell a potential date about any physical disabilities or health challenges before or after you meet?
This is new to me, so be nice, ok? Trolls will be sweetly zapped, if you get my drift. (God, I am a such a Scorp.)
Thank you so much.
Okay, you online dating coaches. About internet dating?
I don't want to type too much this time. Maybe the following dating tips will bring you some helps. http://link.millionairecupid.com Good luck!
Reply:I do think you have to respond to each one even if it is a polite " we are not looking for the same thing". He took the time to respond to you, now take the time to say no thank you. It is common courtesy.
As far as when to tell someone about physical problems, maybe not the first date but within the first three. If a wheelchair is involved then yes before you meet so as not to surprise him and so he can make the necessary arrangements for your date (and his mental assumptions)
Good luck!
Reply:You don't have to reply to all ads. Reply to the ones that interest you...that is what is so neat about internet dating. YOu can be selective. Most people are tough and will get over you not replying.
I would say it is best to be upfront about disabilities. Be yourself upfront and you will have no problems afterward :)
Good luck!
Reply:Craiglist?
If i were you I would have some more respect for yourself! You don't seem bad - but have you seen the other girls adds on there? Let alone the men? They're disgusting!
Go for a dating site or something. They are way more classy and you can probably actually find someone who's worth your time..
And yes you should tell them, and if they don't like you because of these problems they were never worth it in the first place.
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