Sunday, November 20, 2011

Does internet dating realy work?

There's so many ways people can meet on-line. Some examples include: Yahoo chat, Personals on-line, Myspace/Friendster/and other networking sites. All of which allow individuals to meet other people in different parts of the world with just one click and not having to deal with the challenges of approaching a person you like, more of just typing your feelings out. In a way, you can say its more impersonal, which makes it easy and more desirable by others because the Internet gives you the access of meeting someone personally[words typed being their inner self] and even physically [pictures and webcam. Yes, people can lie about how they look and what they're really like, but its up to you to find out whether its real or not. Internet dating does really work if both of the individuals are serious, faithful, honest, and take the risk of being in a relationship. Hence, it doesn't matter how two people meet its up to the people to make it work.

Does internet dating realy work?
no way. first of all, you cant really see the person, its boring, no hands-on stuff, and you just type stuff....nope


anyways its really desperate and pathetic...
Reply:some people find true love..others think that it's stupid





hope u find ur true love soon





andrea_marie%26lt;3
Reply:2 years and going strong...


I met her online and it has been the best relationship I ever had...


Like everything you just have to trust your feelings
Reply:yes. their are some freaks out there though. i found the love of my life 26 months ago, were getting married this summer. we both lived in the same town. look for someone who lives in your town or with in 15 miles from you. dont settle for just anyone, be picky, i did. dont hook up with people who hang out in bars and such places, if you want someone decent.
Reply:I can't speak for everyone but it worked for me. I met my fiancee about two years ago through an online dating service and we are still together. We have been together now for over a year. I haven't been happier at any point in my life until now. It can work just make sure you do your research on the person!!!
Reply:i hope so
Reply:No, not usually.
Reply:Rule number one 1! Don't pay for it!





http://OkCupid.com is free and has a lots of ways to match you up with other profiles. Great fun!





Opinion: I don't really think dating in it's self works if you're serious about finding someone. That said Internet dating has all of the trappings that real dating has plus the problem of "are they really who they say they are?"





Ok now I'm gonna contradict myself big time because I am now living with my boyfriend who,


mailed me about a year and a half ago.


We started chatting over a year ago.


Met in person at a public picnic (organised by me and some others on OkCupid.com) in Oct and...


Have been happy and romantic and buddies etc etc etc ever since. We really 'get' and appreciate each other and I dare say we would a). never have met offline and b). if we did a I'd have been too cautious to deal with it properly. [Hello! I was almost a year before we met in person!]





Anyway in short.


Good matching sites only.


Answer loads of tests and questions (they should have these), to get better results.


Be truthful with yourself most of all.


AND DON'T PAY FOR ANYTHING! [Please feel free to donate to the good ones if they have that facility I will].





PS. Two of my sets of friends met on-line.


Married couple with kids online dating/chatrooms.


Couple living together from a geeky webchat rooms that had meets.





Oh and if you just wanna shag (well some do I guess) then I'm sure you'll find no end of skanks at the ready.


Did I say skanks? I meant adventurous types. ;)
Reply:hell no.
Reply:Mmmm, not at all. There's a lot of fake people out there.
Reply:Some people find that it does (I see the commercials all the time for Match.com). However, I don't see how it could. I would prefer to meet someone face to face FIRST then talk to them. Not the other way around.
Reply:it depends some people find true love and other find it better to just do it face to face
Reply:no
Reply:i'm sure it can but u have beware of nut jobs out there but i wouldn't recommend it
Reply:Well I seen a news report about Internet dating on CBS News last year and two old people got married and found each other over Internet dating so it looks like it does work. So try it out if you are going to.
Reply:no
Reply:mostly never, but there are some lucky people who find one another
Reply:My co-worker is married to her on line boyfriend. They have been married for three years and are truly in love.
Reply:No cause most people lie bout who they are
Reply:Yes. I highly recommend it.
Reply:Yes. Ask my wife (Uncle Neil rocks).
Reply:no, that is for losers


No comments:

Post a Comment