Sunday, November 20, 2011

Would you use an Internet dating website - if so what type of dating website?

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Would you use an Internet dating website - if so what type of dating website?
I have used:





1. match.com (waste of time so far)


2. e-harmony (the biggest waste of time, IMO)


3. fitness-singles (its ok, but nothing special)


4. adult friend finder (lots of fake profiles and women looking for women)


and one or two others.








I have found that they are a waste of time. The people on there are either assholes, just want to look at pic and not actually interested in meeting anyone, or the ads are fake - just an ad for a porn site disguised as a personals ad.





You can find some nice people, but it is rare. Women often find that guys have posted fake pics of pics that are 10 years old, guys try to smooth-talk you because they are just looking to get laid, the guy is a psycho.





Like i said, it is possible to find a nice person, but you have to be smart about it. You have to keep your eyes open and see what is really going on, not what you'd like to see.
Reply:A friend has used Yahoo personals.He has found a lovely new girlfriend from a neighbouring town.It has worked very well for him.
Reply:You can try this one it has thousands of members from all over the world. http://personaldatefinder.diydating.com
Reply:No....really don't think that's the best option. Try better to go on speed dating or something like that, this way you'll actually get to see the person and make up your mind about it.
Reply:EHarmony.com is the best dating site on the Internet if you are actually looking for a SERIOUS relationship leading to marriage. You answer over 50 personality questions that takes over 45 minutes to complete. Most people looking for something casual won't sign up at EHarmony. Give it a go!
Reply:Yes, I belong to one now . . . and post on another. I'm more into ones that are for people interested in a relationship - not the ones just looking for sex.
Reply:no i wouldn't cos i prefer conversation face-to-face.





there are quite a few out there tho so good luck if you decide to
Reply:if ur just lookin for sex use adultfriendfinder. if ur lookin for a relationship use match.com
Reply:I did for a while and went out with lots of insane people. You can get as many dates with psychos as you want to.
Reply:Yes, I used Match.com. I met my husband there. Please make sure that you talk to the person first for a while and to see what there motivations are. People are so phoney.





I met some real frogs before I met my prince.





Got married a couple of weeks ago. We have been joyously happy for about a year.
Reply:I used Yahoo Personals and that's were I found my wonderful fiancee.





http://www.personals.yahoo.com
Reply:Yes, but you want to go to a reputable one, like Yahoo personals. It's worth it, but be careful. There are a lot of creeps out there!
Reply:no. i'm too nontraditional for those sites. i've scanned profiles and the types of women i'd be interested in are no where to be found on those things.


I started internet dating any suggestions.?

What do I do about having sex. i've been a widow for4 years and had only one man.

I started internet dating any suggestions.?
Learn to read between the lines and be a good judge of character. You'd be shocked at how many are sexual predators, or have some other hidden agenda like needing to be taken care of. Be careful, take it slow, meet only in public places.
Reply:Be very carefull there is a lot of men and women out there just into playing head games.





Good luck
Reply:download some porn movies and learn from there.
Reply:do what feels right for you. if you don't feel comfortable with a guy, don't do it. if you want to wait, wait. there are no rules and you shouldn't feel compelled to sleep with someone just because you've gone out with him three times or so. it might take you awhile to find someone you'd be interested in sleeping with, anyway. if he's a decent guy, he'll understand and wait if that's what you choose to do. just go into it safely and smart, and do it for YOU, not anyone else.
Reply:haaaaaa better be gettin the webcam out
Reply:i wouldnt worry about the sex part right now. getting back into the dating game is hard enough. i'm pretty sure that when you are ready to have sex again, you'll know what to do.. ;)


BE VERY VERY CAREFUL ON-LINE. always meet in a well known public place, and i think lunch is a better first date then dinner. its light outside, and its more casual. good luck!!
Reply:ehemm,better be careful..don't believe 100% .The risk is high,and if you plan to meet by face,bring somebody along with you and in make sure in public.Don't over expose about yourslef especially your private details.for example,home number and address.
Reply:The only thing I can say is to be careful because a lot of these people online will misrepresent themselves greatly. It's probably better to meet someone in real life because online anybody can say anything and a lot of people have gotten into problems from online dating and relationships resulting from chatting, etc.. I'm saying this from seeing it happen.
Reply:Stay away from internet for starters. Talk about Risky Business. It's like playing the lottery. The best way to meet someone is by not looking. Be yourself, stay self-confident. Be who you are. Know who you are and take it slow. There are no sure-fire methods to connect with someone like-minded but you have a much better chance by staying true to yourself first and foremost.
Reply:I myself am 59 and just started internet dating. I chatted for 4 weeks before he asked me for a date. Meet in a public place the first time. If the chemistry is right he will ask you out for the 2nd, 3rd date. When you feel comfortable with each others company, then sex will come. Don't rush it on the first date.

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What is internet dating?

How does it work? What shall a girl do to the guy? i need explanations... please don't ask me to open websites...

What is internet dating?
just have a communication with him have a chemistry if you feel safe with him.... go for it!!!!
Reply:There is nothing wrong about internet chat,I think it is interesting.. you can talk about everything,that is fun!


Successfulness of Internet Dating Eharmony?

I had no success at EHarmony.


They connected me with women from Canada and California,and I am from WVa.


But, maybe I am just hard to please....?

Successfulness of Internet Dating Eharmony?
well the commercial says if u dont find someone in 6 months they will give u 6 months free


Why is internet dating a waste of time and money?

go to www.plentyoffish.com


it's free...





...probably still a waste of time though

Why is internet dating a waste of time and money?
If u find someone it's not
Reply:It isn't a waste of time and money if you happen to find someone. A lot of people also meet here. I have had many wonderful people contact me. Most have remained friends and email buddies. Maybe you are looking for the wrong type of person, or you give the impression that you are.
Reply:Even if you don't meet someone personaly it can still be fun!
Reply:Who said it was?
Reply:I think because we all want instant gratification......you want the first person you meet to be the ONE but in fact you have to date ALOT and you get tired of meeting losers! Eventually though i think it can work out...my friend met her husband on match.com
Reply:true


Complexities with internet dating?

This woman says she absolutely loves me, and to be honest I love her too, but she is so afraid of screwing things up later that she is afraid to meet me. What can I do to get her to move forward?

Complexities with internet dating?
persuade her. and tell her there's no pressure. remind her the positives of being in a relationship, she'll never know what could happen if she never gives it a chance...
Reply:The fear she claims is probably because she has misrepresented herself to you. She could be a "He" for all you know. May be older, fatter, uglier then you were lead to think. Such people like to keep the fantasy going for as long as possible-so you need to be firm-meet me or leave me. Do not let her tie up your time when you want a real-not fantasy-encounter.


Sorry if you feel that this is not what you want to hear-It comes from experience-not meant to be hurtful or mean.
Reply:just


talk 2 her tell she iz ready
Reply:Drop the neurotic chick like a bad habit, before it is too late.
Reply:show her that there is nothing to worry about...
Reply:Can you imagine spending the rest of your life having a relationship with someone you've never been in the same room with? Can she? I'm guessing no. So the relationship is probably doomed if you don't meet. This means she has a lot to potentially gain from meeting you, and not a whole lot to lose.





You can always solemnly promise her a second date in advance, just incase something goes horribly wrong on the first, though it probably won't.





Edited to add, tell her the story of me and my husband. When we first met in person after talking online for a long time, we got comfortable with each other quickly. Less than an hour after meeting we went out for pizza and the waitress assumed I was his wife.
Reply:You have to provide and out for her. Like tell her you will visit on like the weekend at first no rush or anything. Can see how things are for that stretch of time. If she has a good time over the weekend. Just call from your hotel and ask her if she had fun and a good time. Then if she does, let her suggest when she wants to do it again. But don't be in a rush with her. See the real world is much different than the online one. Feelings get started very quickly and most people freak out because in reality of what was said on the net they know in the real world they would never be so bold. So have to give her time and all that. She needs to have a sense of control here. So don't offer to stay at her home, but say you will have a hotel room in the area and, you can have public dates. As long as she gives you directions to a mall or something. The ball is very much in her court. Once she feels calmer with you, I'm sure she will know what to do. Good luck.

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Anyone Tried Internet Dating?

I went on to find, 'fun and games' with a 21-30yr old, Female.


What I got was a 14 yr paraplegic boy.


The sex was disappointing..!

Anyone Tried Internet Dating?
That is bad - obviously not true - so very funny!!!!!!!!!!!


i take it you are bored and at work?
Reply:right on !
Reply:whcih site?
Reply:I met my husband on the internet.
Reply:my friend met her husband in a chat room it can be a bit risky but you do not now how you are talking to
Reply:.. internet dating is good for the people who


- dont ever get out


- have social phobias or anxiety


- are prepared to be decieved.. who tells the truth 100% time over internet?
Reply:no and not ever going too people really do get hurt
Reply:Don't give up. I ended up married. And the sex isn't disappointing.
Reply:what site?
Reply:wow...ur a weirdo